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Let's Talk About Sex

Let's Talk About Sex

By Helena Magdalena

Our beautiful bodies are filled with so many exciting sexually charged zones just waiting to be explored.

Take the time to learn which zones you want to target for yourself or with your partner.

When examining which areas work for you and your partner, we encourage show-and-tell for deeply bonded sensual experiences.

We want to help you get to a place where sex toys are part of your intimacy. 

"If your partner is receptive to more, move on to kissing the area, then use the tip of your tongue to lick your way down." 

It's important to talk about sex toys and how you would like to introduce them to your intimacy and too not make your partner feel like a device is replacing them, but rather to enhance your sexual experiences to be more satisfying adding variety and stamina. 

Adding a vibrator or a cock ring to your foreplay and lovemaking can be a game-changer for you both.

Start exploring together where you want to target your pleasure. Your erogenous zones are a good place to start – these are points on the body that you can touch to stimulate pleasure. Some of these may be obvious, but others might surprise you or your partners.  

A lot of women struggle to orgasm with penetration only, and a vibrator can prime and edge towards a very satisfying orgasm, and men need more stamina.

To get started, generously apply lube to the target area(s) you want to play with. Turn on your vibrator and touch the target spot with your device. 

Fansycake vibrators have many patterns you can cycle through to find the correct pressure and vibration that feels good and keep at it, allowing the sensation to build and build to reach your deeply satisfied journey and destination, letting the excitement spread to your genitals and entire body.

Our erogenous zones trigger sexual arousal.

G-Spot:

Is an area capable of causing what’s known as female ejaculation. You’ll find your G- Spot located 5–8 cm up the front vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra - a small area of erectile tissue behind the pubic bone, near the front wall of the vagina, close to the urethra and is a very sensitive area.

A curved vibrator is best for accessing it and achieving on-spot pressure to orgasm. Our beautifully designed G-spot vibrators are sublime to play with, and you’ll love the luxurious soft-touch texture designed for easy glide insertion and ultimate comfort during use for a direct and satisfying Fansyplay.

Our Modern Lover’s elegant curve caters to spot-on pleasure for G-spot and will be a smooth glide insertion with the softest tip.

If your partner is receptive to more, move on to kissing the area, then use the tip of your tongue to lick your way down.

Browse our G-Spot vibrators:

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A-Spot:

The lower part of the vaginal canal is full of erotically charged nerve endings and home to the anterior fornix – A-Spot. 

Using our Royale Supreme Wand, seamlessly blend a vibrating magic wand head for clitoral pleasure with a curvy dildo vibrator shaft for internal bliss penetrating the vagina, and focus pressure on the front wall while sliding in and out. 

Each motor features 10 rumbling vibration settings you can cycle through, offering powerful sensations from both ends when you find the correct pressure and vibration that feels good and keep at it, allowing the sensation to build and build to reach your desired destination.

Browse our Wand Vibrators:

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Glans Clitoris:

You’ll find the clitoris at the top of the Labia surrounding the vagina, and this nerve-dense structure extends deep into the body. You can stimulate the many nerves in the clit with both internal and external play. This small pleasure bud contains thousands of nerve endings and is covered by a hood. The clitoral hood is a fold of skin that surrounds and protects the glans clitoris. The glans gets all the glory when it comes to sexual pleasure, but there is much more to the clitoris. 

Take it between your index and middle finger and slide it slowly up and down. If you want more, use our split twin-tip luxe mini vibrator that can act as your fingers with two moveable arms designed for precise spot stimulation.  

Try our Oval Lover vibrator and rub your nub using light pressure with its super soft tip that's also very powerful, delivering intense sensational vibes. Experiment with direction and tempo, and cycle through the vibrator's settings to find what feels best. When you’ve found the correct pressure and vibration that feels good keep at it, allowing the sensation to build and build and build to reach your most satisfying destination. 

Pubic Mound: 

The Mons Pubis is a fleshy mound just above the Clitoris and is rich in nerve endings connected to the genitals. Massaging the area in an up-and-down motion can indirectly stimulate the Labia and Clitoris. The Labia can vary in appearance due to differences in the size and shape of the inner and outer lips. While there are many types, all Labia have characteristics that make them unique.

If your partner is receptive to more, move on to kissing the area, then use the tip of your tongue to lick your way down. If you’re playing with yourself, use our ‘ultimate fusion’ of a Rabbit and Wand’ we have two to choose from. Or our Oval Lover for gentler yet deep vibrations tailored for sensitive clitoral and mound pleasure. This versatile device suggests exploring small circular movements on your mound and applying subtle pressure for an enhanced experience. With an easy-to-use navigation at its base, you can effortlessly cycle through 10 vibration modes using just two buttons–one for power and the other for mode selection.

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Cervix: 

You need to be fully aroused to enjoy cervical stimulation, and we suggest priming romance and engaging in foreplay is a must. Traditionally, any deep-penetration sex position can do it. Doggy style is a good one that can be performed using a strap-on or regular dildo as well. Our best devices to prime deep cervical stimulation, we suggest our remote control egg called Egg Romance, which will prime and tease you in and out of the bedroom. Or our Modern Lover for a luxurious smooth glide with an extended reach. When you find the right depth and motion that feels good, keep going to reach your cervical orgasms, which are also called full-body orgasms.  

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Scrotum and Testicles:

'The coin purse' is filled with super sensitive nerves waiting to be enjoyed. Gently massage the scrotum or up the pleasure by showing the perineal raphe some love. This is the seam that runs down the centre of the scrotum. Run your finger gently up and down the raphe while masturbating, or let your tongue work its magic on the seam when performing oral. Add in any of our vibrating cock rings for added pleasure and intensity.

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Perineum:

This sensitive patch of skin lies between the scrotum and anus and deserves the vibrating anal plug with a ball base for easy, long-play grips. You can also slip on one of our cock rings to put vibrating pressure on the Perineum while sliding back and forth to orgasm.

Once the cock ring is on, reach below the sack during a hand job or blow job and rub it, or apply our Anal Lux Vibrator between the legs during missionary sex.

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P-Spot:

This walnut-sized gland sits at the internal root of the penis and can lead to powerful, sheet-twisting orgasms. You can only reach the P SPOT via anal Sex. Hence, a well-lubed finger to get started or our prostate vibrator works best. Our vibrating anal plug with a ball base for easy extended play grips for the more experienced. Or try our Queen in Between's flexible shaft arm a couple of inches into the rectum, applying pressure to the front wall. When you find the right move, keep at it. Stroke or suck the penis at the same time for maximum pleasure.

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Helena Magdalena
CEO and Founder of Fansycake
https://www.fansycake.com/en-row/pages/about-us

Helena is a the founder of Fansycake. She is a huge advocate of sexual awareness and sexual wellness. She's been through it all and come out the other side.